Your baby is challenged by you to explore the world and you are his secure base. If you are near, he feels secure. If he has contact with you, that sense of security is strengthened. He growths calmer and more relaxed, physically and mentally. It may be very difficult for you to hold your baby close if he cries for a long time. The feeling of helplessness may make the penetrating sound of the crying unbearable. Try to remain calm and continue to keep your baby close to you. Always remember: It is tougher on him than it is on you.